
It's fun to watch the kids grow and achieve new milestones in their life. I'm marveling at the growth Ryan is showing lately. He is a voracious reader. In the month of January he read 20+ books alone. Yes, some were quick reads, but there were many long ones too;The Hitchiker's Guide to the Galaxy series, three books from Orson Scott Card's Ender's Game series , The Illustrated Man by Ray Bradbury, To Kill a Mockingbird, among others. Due to being an Appie, he struggles greatly with change, changes in his environment and with himself personally. While we usually have to be careful when talking with him about 'growing up', lately he has been the one to initiate these conversations. As he has been reading 'To Kill a Mockingbird", he has been coming to me and talking about how he relates to the changes that Jem, a young teen age boy in the story is experiencing. he tells me, "Mom, I'm growing and changing too". He has been too, I love to watch how patient he is of Liam, he's becoming aware of his needs, and is more careful to try not to hurt all of his siblings feelings lately. From time to time, I see him accepting others' way of doing things.
He's discovering the joy of service. Most Sunday's he shares the Sacrament with a home bound family, the Beavers. He comes home from this act of service so happy and full of joy. I'm sure grateful for the service opportunities he has with his Young Men's group.
While writing the blog entry about our valentines fun, I realized how willing he is to do things that he's not comfortable with.
My baby Liam is growing up too. The other night although he had eaten a good dinner, he apparently was still hungry. What was fun to watch was that he knew that to 'eat', he would need a 'plate' so instead of grabbing some turkey off the table, he went to the dishwasher, got a plate out, placed some turkey on the plate, and then ate. Often he will not eat a meal until you give him a spoon or fork, not that he won't use his hands after a while, but he always starts a meal with a utensil.
Another funny antidote, he came to me pointing to his mouth ( this is what he does to let me know he wants something) I walked into the kitchen to find him something, as I approached the refridgerator he became very excited so I offered him some cheese,....no that wasn't what he wanted, I offered more food options, he became so upset and angry that he started to bang his head on the cupboard door until I said the word "Milk" "Do you want some milk?" The excited babble and happy smile that came from him told me I
finally got the food item he wanted. And all I said was the word, I didn't show him the milk jug. He's really starting to better understand what everything is.