I teach the 14-17 year old youth at church for Sunday School.
I've enjoyed reading and learning more about the words of the prophets as it correlates to the lessons I'm teaching...here are some of my favorite quotes from the church's Institute Manual, plus a few of my thoughts from personal scripture study.
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Elder Richard G. Scott of the Quorum of the Twelve
Apostles taught that adversity can help stimulate
necessary growth in our lives:
“May I share some suggestions with you who face
the testing that a wise Heavenly Father determines is
needed even when you are living a worthy, righteous
life and are obedient to His commandments.
“Just when all seems to be going right, challenges
often come in multiple doses applied simultaneously.
When those trials are not consequences of your
disobedience, they are evidence that the Lord feels you
are prepared to grow more (see Proverbs 3:11–12). He
therefore gives you experiences that stimulate growth,
understanding, and compassion which polish you for
your everlasting benefit. To get you from where you
are to where He wants you to be requires a lot of
stretching, and that generally entails discomfort and
pain” (in Conference Report, Oct. 1995, 18; or Ensign,
Nov. 1995, 16–17).
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Intense heat refines metal and removes impurities.
Elder Dallin H. Oaks of the Quorum of the Twelve
Apostles observed that affliction can likewise refine and
purify each of us: “Most of us experience some measure
of what the scriptures call ‘the furnace of affliction’
(Isaiah 48:10; 1 Nephi 20:10). Some are submerged in
service to a disadvantaged family member. Others suffer
the death of a loved one or the loss or postponement of
a righteous goal like marriage or childbearing.
Still others struggle with personal impairments or
with feelings of rejection, inadequacy, or depression.
Through the justice and mercy of a loving Father in
Heaven, the refinement and sanctification possible
through such experiences can help us achieve what
God desires us to become” (in Conference Report, Oct.
2000, 43; or Ensign, Nov. 2000, 33–34).
2 Nephi 2:11–14. “There Is an Opposition in
All Things”
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President Boyd K. Packer, President of the Quorum
of the Twelve Apostles, explained that opposition
helps us grow stronger: “Life will not be free from
challenges, some of them bitter and hard to bear. We
may wish to be spared all the trials of life, but that
would be contrary to the great plan of happiness,
‘for it must needs be, that there is an opposition in
all things’ (2 Nephi 2:11). This testing is the source of
our strength” (in Conference Report, Apr. 2004, 81; or
Ensign, May 2004, 80).
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President Ezra Taft Benson explained that opposition
provides choice:
“The Book of Mormon teaches that ‘it must needs
be, that there is an opposition in all things’ (2 Nephi
2:11)—and so there is. Opposition provides choices,
and choices bring consequences—good or bad.
“The Book of Mormon explains that men ‘are free
to choose liberty and eternal life, through the great
Mediator of all men, or to choose captivity and death,
according to the captivity and power of the devil’
(2 Nephi 2:27).
“God loves us; the devil hates us. God wants us to
have a fulness of joy as He has. The devil wants us to
be miserable as he is. God gives us commandments
to bless us. The devil would have us break these
commandments to curse us.
“Daily, constantly, we choose by our desires, our
thoughts, and our actions whether we want to be
blessed or cursed, happy or miserable” (in Conference
Report, Apr. 1988, 5; or Ensign, May 1988, 6).
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Elder Neal A. Maxwell (1926–2004) of the Quorum
of the Twelve Apostles commented on how opposition
relates to happiness: “Indeed, without the existence of
choices, without our freedom to choose and without
opposition, there would be no real existence. This is
so much like Lehi’s metaphor of how, in the absence
of agency and opposites, things would have resulted
in a meaningless, undifferentiated ‘compound in one’
(2 Nephi 2:11). In such a situation the earth would
actually have ‘no purpose in the end of its creation’
(2 Nephi 2:12). It is a fact that we can neither grow
spiritually nor thereby be truly happy unless and until
we make wise use of our moral agency” (One More
Strain of Praise [1999], 80).
2 Nephi 5:11, 13. “We Did Prosper Exceedingly”
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In 2 Nephi 5:11, 13 Nephi told of his people’s
success in raising their flocks, herds, and crops. Often
we associate prosperity with tangible blessings, such as
wealth or the material things of the world. President
Heber J. Grant (1856–1945)
taught about what true
prosperity is: “When I say
prosperity I am not
thinking of it in terms of
dollars and cents alone. . . .
What I count as real
prosperity . . . is the
growth in a knowledge of
God, and in a testimony,
and in the power to live the gospel and to inspire our
families to do the same. That is prosperity of the truest
kind” (Gospel Standards, comp. G. Homer Durham
[1941], 58; also cited by James E. Faust, in Conference
Report, Oct. 1998, 74; or Ensign, Nov. 1998, 59).
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Speaking about how paying tithing brings true
prosperity, President James E. Faust (1920–2007) of the
First Presidency quoted from an experience shared by
Sister Yaeko Seki:“My family and I were spending a day at the Japan
Alps National Park. . . . I was pregnant with our fourth
child and was feeling rather tired, so I lay down under
the trees. . . . I began thinking about our financial
problems. My heart became overwhelmed, and I burst
into tears. ‘Lord, we are full-tithe payers. We have
sacrificed so much. When will the windows of heaven
open unto us and our burdens be lightened?’
“I prayed with all my heart. Then I turned to watch
my husband and children playing and laughing
together. . . . Suddenly, the Spirit testified to me that
my blessings were abundant and that my family was
the greatest blessing Heavenly Father could give me”
(in Conference Report, Oct. 1998, 74; or Ensign, Nov.
1998, 59).
2 Nephi 5:10–18, 26–27. “After the Manner of
Happiness”
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The Prophet Joseph Smith explained that there is a
path that leads to happiness: “Happiness is the object
and design of our existence; and will be the end
thereof, if we pursue the path that leads to it; and this
path is virtue, uprightness, faithfulness, holiness, and
keeping all the commandments of God” (History of the
Church, 134–35).
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President Gordon B. Hinckley (1910–2008) taught
similarly about happiness: “The Lord wants us to be
happy. Nephi said a great thing: ‘And . . . we lived after
the manner of happiness.’ (2 Ne. 5:27.) What a
wonderful thing. I want my
children to be happy. I
want them to do well. I
want them to live well and
live rightly, properly; and,
in the same way, except
that my Father in Heaven’s
love reaches beyond any
power of love that I have. I
think He wants His sons
and daughters to be happy. Happiness comes of
righteousness. ‘Wickedness never was happiness.’
(Alma 41:10.) Sin never was happiness. Selfishness
never was happiness. Greed never was happiness.
Happiness lies in living the principles of the gospel of
Jesus Christ”
President Boyd K. Packer, President of the Quorum
of the Twelve Apostles, wrote of the difficulty
encountered by many readers of the Book of Mormon:
“Most [readers] readily understand the narrative of the
Book of Mormon.
“Then, just as you settle in to move comfortably along,
you will meet a barrier. . . . Interspersed in the narrative,
are chapters reciting the prophecies of the Old
Testament prophet Isaiah. They loom as a barrier, like
a roadblock or a checkpoint beyond which the casual
reader, one with idle curiosity, generally will not go.
“You, too, may be tempted to stop there, but do not
do it! Do not stop reading! Move forward through
those difficult-to-understand chapters of Old Testament
prophecy, even if you understand very little of it.
Move on, if all you do is skim and merely glean an
impression here and there. Move on, if all you do
is look at the words” (in Conference Report, Apr.
1986, 76; or Ensign, May 1986, 61).
As I've been reading from 2 Nephi where he quotes heavily from the writings of Isaiah, I've wanted to quit...this one really helps me push forward.
One day, while in the car with Connor, as we were discussing his great dislike for his CC class I was reading (after our discussion and I sat with him as he finished some Latin homework), in 2 Nephi 15:1-2 1
aAnd then will I sing to my well-beloved a song of my beloved, touching his
bvineyard. My well-beloved hath a vineyard in a very fruitful hill.
2 And he fenced it, and gathered out the stones thereof, and planted it with the choicest
avine, and built a tower in the midst of it, and also made a wine-press therein; and he looked that it should bring forth grapes, and it brought forth wild grapes.
....I thought why did he put a wine-press in the vineyard? Well, he intended to have sweet grapes to make wine with...and to make wine a press is needed--pressure, is needed for the juice to come out. This could be liken unto trials for us. We need to endure the pressure (and pain) of trials to make us become as he wants us to be. I'm not sure if this is what is intended by the scripture, but I feel it's the message I was suppose to convey with Connor...."Hey, dear son, you're going through pain and sorrow in this trial of school work (not understanding why he has to learn what he's asked to learn (mostly in the method he's asked to learn it and the tutor's mannerisms) But, the Lord needs you to be great and greatness will take pain and pressure and perseverance, just as a wine-press crushes grapes to make wine....hey, the Lord wants you to be sweet juice!!" That brought a smile (and no more tears :-) I sure do love that amazing boy. I'm glad I had that spiritual moment with him...of course he claims he got nothing from our discussion.
For the past few weeks I've been pondering and discussing with Barry and a friend the first two quotes above, on the purpose of trials and opposition in our life. I really like these as they have brought me great comfort, not that life is particularly hard...but it does come in moments, as it does for everyone.