My sister Cheri called yesterday to say that she's jealous of me because I stay home during the day and don't do anything......really?!!
I understand that she's tired and wants to stay home too. I know I would hate to have to get up and leave my home everyday. I feel so grateful that I am blessed with the ability to live on what my husband makes without me having to go to work.....yes, we do it only because of tithing blessing, hand-me-downs, no frills foods or meals, rarely go out for "paid type" fun or restaurant food and the great generosity of others sharing their abundance with us...
I understand that I don't go to work like my mom did, --driving a school bus for the local school district all while raising 7 children--and that I only have 6 children......
But really? to say that I don't do anything? ........In truth I think it's quite funny....and I honestly doubt that she meant it the way it came out of her mouth...I know everything that comes out of my mouth certainly isn't the way I want it said (or think I said it.)
Anyway, I'm perching up on my soap box right now to declare that YES!! I do "do something" everyday while I stay home......so for your enlightenment dear sister, don't be jealous of my lovely life.....this is what it would entail......
Yesterday--
made breakfast
somewhat cleaned my room and make bed--somewhat
got dressed and showered (not an everyday occurance, I'm sure my sister gets one every single day!)
got kids onto their chores.....reminded them that I can't and won't do it all..I didn't yell to loudly, just with emotion :)
cleaned the kitchen (from the night before because kids aren't doing their chores)
took girls to Whitten's so they can keep their dog watching job
kids home and did family scriptures
threw in a load of laundry
while Barry and the older three went off to mow for the business, I
worked with Liam on his school work of letters
Delaney with her math
read two books to them on our topic of Africa
started lunch
mow crew came home and fed the masses
put Brianne down for a nap----oops, fell asleep, because I'm tired--we're staying up nearly to midnight these past few days due to birthday celebrations for Ryan after they came home from stake priesthood meetings (and helping the kids feed dogs) that was Sunday
on Saturday I was up this late because Cailin was working her first "real job for someone else" at the Claytor Lake festival for the Hill's food booth) and all that day I ran from here to there while watching 7 extra kids (that would be 13 kids total!) Friday I was up late too...just can't remember why....because my brain is tired!
when I woke up I got Ryan and Cailin onto their testing for the end of the year.
took Ryan to a friends home in Radford
stopped at the library to pick up some more books on Africa and let Liam have a bit of fun with the computer.
tried effortlessly to calm Liam and Delaney's fears after hearing on the radio of a tornado watches and flood warnings that were in affect for our area. (and to keep myself calm and not show signs of exasperation in dealing with this never ending fear)
stopped at Walmart to pick up guinea pig food, wood chips, and a few other things for an African meal that we'll have later this week.
Oh great....no wood chips, now I have to go to Tractor Supply...so on to another store...
back home and Cailin informs me that Melody has a
huge lump under her front leg. I check her out and she has yellow gunk leaking from her nipples too.
call Brother Morgan and see if he can fit us into his schedule....oh dear I hope it's not cancer!
we're at his office for almost an hour. He doesn't think it's cancerous, but does feel that if should be removed. He has made a contractual agreement with Cailin--they will trade services. He will perform the surgery and she will take care of all his animals and mow his yard while they are away on a family vacation to Idaho....what a tender mercy!!
Back home again.....it's now 6 pm and there is no dinner started. Sister Zander is here for piano lessons and Barry is getting ready to walk out the door for work on an empty stomach....great! :{
gotta deal with an less- than -happy- about- the- organization -of- the- papers- on -the piano- (in fairness to her it's been a mess for a few months now) but she's tired of it and even though I've told the kids to *gasp* clean it up, because it's their job--they have not done it! imagine that!! :}
Search the cupboard for meal ideas....oh chow mien noodles...we'll have Hawaiian haystacks. start the rice. (In my abundance of time I really do need to get a menu planned so this won't happen again.)
deal with a fight between Delaney and Connor concerning walking the dogs. Connor walks on with out Delaney, try and sooth her hurt feelings because Connor was being a turkey with her.
Brianne is losing it because dinner is soooo late--put on Signing Time or Barney--that will give us more time.
I have this intense feeling that I need to catch up with Connor and spend some time with him--he must be hurting somehow too.
get Cailin onto the meal prep and feed the littles.....and finish de-stemming the snap peas from the garden for dinner too.
Walk the route Connor takes for the dogs going backwards (not physically) to meet up with him. Chat and talk about nothing and everything...he seems okay. Let him know that he really hurt his sisters feelings with his insensitive comments.
Get back home
I hear him apologize. He really is a great youth!
Eat dinner. Make plans with fellow mom of youth that Ryan is spending time with as to when we'll meet up and I pick up Ryan again.
Eat a bite of dinner...mmmmm yummy the snap peas are amazingly good!
Brianne's a mess, get her in the bathtub and clean up the kitchen...just a bit.
it's time to get the girls over to the Whitten's to take care of the dogs again.
....on to pick up Ryan. Chat with Takara about good websites for high school and other school needs.
home again....it's monday night. FHE ...make peanut butter popcorm and a movie...we'll watch Ramona and Beezus, but it's 9 pm. Great This day isn't going as planned. It's too late to start the movie but I'll never hear the end of it--how can a dare not have FHE.
I let them start the movie but once I get Brianne down they'll have to go to bed --however, the movie is great. We are all engrossed in it....we watch and enjoy the popcorn....even Brianne. it's over by 11;30 pm Liam fell asleep at the computer watching his own movie (he doesn't like Ramona--I've been reading the books of Ramona to Liam and Laney and Liam's decided he doesn't like them, so he won't watch the movie)
Move Liam
Get Brianne down with me...Barry's working so it's another night of Laney (and now Brianne) in bed with me...not going to be a great sleeping night for me.
I should read the scriptures but I'm so tired, it's just going to be a prayer and then down for bed....whew, why do I feel so tired when I don't do anything during the day?
today's been just as busy......more dogs,
guinea pig drop off and pick up at the vet's office for a surgery....it's a good thing we did get the tumor out, it looked quite ugly.
deal with an insurance agent/company who are not stellar or honest
prepare strawberries and rhubarb for making jam
get the cherries picked
get boys onto the yard duties
go to Dollar tree to get 'summer reading program" because the local library's one is in cohorts with lawmakers and DOE....really?! what a creative way to slowly give our constitutional rights away...in a so seemingly benign way.
More testing for Ryan and Cailin
math, journaling and more Africa reading for Liam and Laney.
look into cloth diapers for Brianne.
Blog 2 book 20% deadline is today....get the blog book 2010 uploaded to printer.
get Connor on to finishing his history.....I'm done with TJEd, I don't care, I will require!!
help Connor with his cooking class, he wants to make peanut butter noodles
After dinner, go to Mattson's and clean out their garden beds....they are coming home on Friday from China!
make a strawberry and rhubarb pie for Barry.
Yep, I'm tired again....but I don't know why, I don't do anything?!!
***okay, okay, so she says, that she doesn't want to do anything....not necessarily that I don't do anything...but that's what I heard, and I'm sticking with it!!!